LADIES, THESE ARE SIX WAYS TO KNOW IF YOUR MAN IS REALLY YOUR TRUE LOVER

Are you dating someone and wondering if he is your true lover ?

Love can be confusing and complicated for women at times.That’s because, men and women think differently.

“Yesterday, he was the nicest guy in the world, and today he’s a complete jerk. I just don’t understand,” is a common, legitimate statement that is heard all too often from women. That’s because men are only human, so their emotions can go up and down too. It doesn’t mean they don’t love you. The important part is that what a man says and does should be in alignment.

With that said, men do exhibit a common set of behaviors that demonstrate their love for a woman.

1. HE LISTENS TO YOU (CLOSELY!).

Generally, women are much better listeners than men. To be frank, some men have absolutely atrocious listening skills.The curious thing is that men will always intently focus on things of interest. So, when a man not only hears you but actively pays attention and intelligently responds – a skill called active listening – you can have confidence that he’s smitten.

2. HE ISN’T AFRAID TO MAKE A SACRIFICE.

Making personal sacrifices is much easier when doing it for a person we love. In fact, men who are in love will feel tremendous discomfort at the thought of their woman being unhappy – especially if there’s something we can do about it.

As such, making sacrifices for your happiness is one way a man demonstrates his love for you. He will always put you first, even if it means changing his plans or stepping out of his comfort zone.

3. HE SHOWS VULNERABILITY (THIS IS AN IMPORTANT ONE).

Men being men are cautious about showing any behavior that can be perceived by others as a weakness. In love, however, this deeply ingrained attitude often falls by the wayside – they we don’t care.


If he is in love, he is far more comfortable with feeling and acting vulnerable. Vulnerability will assuredly make several appearances throughout a relationship – especially if they are with you only.

4. HE LOVES HOW YOU LOOK, EVEN ON YOUR “WORST DAYS”.

Remember how much effort we put into looking our best during those early dates? Of course. All of us want to look and feel good when meeting up with a potential partner.

Then there’s the actual relationship. As we spend more time with each other, comfort levels build, and our need to impress declines sharply. We’re free to wander around in our pajamas, stain our shirts, and forgo the hair gel.

When men love someone, we’ll think a woman looks beautiful no matter the situation.

5. HE’S PROUD OF YOU (AND ISN’T AFRAID TO SHOW IT).

In love, a real man isn’t shy about saying how proud he is of you.

Whether you’re a fantastic mother, a hard worker, or reaching your goals, you can rest assured that your efforts don’t go unnoticed. In fact, all of the admirable things you’ve done and are working towards brings us a great amount of pride and joy.

On a related note, he is not upset about losing to you. If you’re both very competitive people, he’ll probably feel a bit less crushed following a swift defeat! (Well done!)

6. HE TREATS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WITH RESPECT.

If you know that someone is important to you, by default, they become important to us. The reason is simple: you cherish family and friends, and the last thing we want is to hurt your feelings.

While he may not like one of your family members (see: “in-laws and husband”) or one of your catty friends, he’ll zip it because he knows how much they mean to you.