I DON’T KNOW WHY ALL MY GIRLFRIENDS BREAK UP WITH ME – WORRIED MAN

A 28-year-old university graduate has written to a relationship advisor, Abena Manokekame on Facebook to pour out his worries concerning his love life.

According to the young man, he has been in four serious relationships but they just break up with him for no reason and his latest Ex told him that her ex-boyfriend checks up on her better than him.


He said he wants to know if he isn’t less a human being because he is too sensitive and emotional.

Read his post below:

“ADVICE NEEDED

Hello Aunty Abena, trust you are well.

I am a university graduate 28 years of age a guy actually and working just not very lucrative but managing. I know myself to be very emotional and sensitive and I don’t know whether this has been the cause of many ladies leaving me.

I have been in 4 serious relationships but they just wake up one day and feel they can’t continue with me. I feel like I’m being punished for being naturally me.

Note I have never been violent or abusive to any of these ladies but it feels they just give up on me. In terms of money I’m not there yet and I’m not stingy, I give as I can even to the point that I sometimes give at the expense of my family.
I just wanted to get serious with just one person and build life with but all has proven futile.
I feel something is wrong with me but don’t know what.


My latest ex asked for chop money and I told her I didn’t have (that was the first time asking me) and I stayed a bit off due to the work I do, i travel a lot. She kept a distance after that. I complained cos I had explained to her earlier why I was off and all I got was “my ex even checks up in me better than you do”.

I was wowed and indeed she was in touch with the ex. Even took his advice over mine because she tells me her ex knows her better.
I completely held back and a week later I got a text;
“You can never change, I can’t do this anymore, i have been taken by another, please don’t come begging”.


I just want your beautiful people to help me. Am I less of a human being cos I’m too sensitive? How can I pretend cos I don’t know how to? Just anything cos I feel it’s affecting every relationship im in……..”