HOW TO PREVENT A BORING RELATIONSHIP

When we think of romantic relationships, we think thoughts of loving and being happy with that special someone.
But over the years, when you’ve got to know each other too well and things have become a routine, the excitement seems to fade away.

Speaking the truth, nobody likes a boring person. Predictability is something you want to avoid in your relationship. If you are too predictable , you will likely be seen as boring. Let’s face it, no one wants to date someone that’s uninteresting and forever set in his ways.

Even the best relationships require constant work, effort, time, and attention. How much you put into your relationship directly impacts the quality. So, if you’re feeling bored but are committed to staying together, it’s the right time to make some important shifts.
No matter what, make sure you are having fun in life.

 Because when you are enjoying, people around you will begin to enjoy as well. Always be honest and show how trustworthy and reliable you are. Also respect people and treat them how they should be. Show some interest in them and they will definitely show some in you. Make sure you hang out with people who are fun too. 

The point is to maximize your talents and make use of what you have. If you are a very reserved person, this could be a little difficult at first. But with a little effort, you can definitely improve. The tips and ideas should definitely help you in the longer run. So here’s hoping that you learn to change yourself and transform into a fun loving and enthusiastic individual very soon.

 INTRODUCE SOMETHING NEW INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Trying a new skill, activity, or hobby together will bring fresh energy into your relationship and increase your bond. Plan something exciting that you haven’t done before, such as salsa dancing, rock climbing, marathon running, kayaking, or signing up for an art, cooking, photography, or pottery class. The key is picking anything that feels new, exciting, adventurous and different.

 DON’T BE SHY
Shy people are often considered boring and we are sure you want to avoid that if you want to come across as interesting and fun loving. So remember to be more charismatic. Also remember this will be the last time you meet people around you. This will encourage you to be a more engaging and energetic person.

 STOP WASTING TIME ON THINGS THAT DON’T MATTER
One of the best ways in which you could stop being boring is not to waste time altogether. Don’t spend too much time on the internet or the television. Not only does it occupy your brain but also takes over your mind. These things make you less carefree and stop you from being what you can actually become. So in order to become less boring, stop doing any of those things that are way too time and effort consuming.

 APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE
Take time to appreciate what you have.
Research shows taking time to feel gratitude can prevent you from taking things for granted.

 UNDERSTANDING CHANGE IN A RELATIONSHIP OVER TIME
It is also important to think about how your feelings may have changed over the course of your relationship. The initial stages of a relationship are called the honeymoon stage because everything feels perfect and exciting. Both people generally feel that they have finally found the person that they have been looking for, the person who is ideally suited to them.

The honeymoon stage can last a couple of years, and after that, the disillusionment stage may kick in, followed, hopefully, by an acceptance stage where there is deeper love and seeing your partner more objectively and compassionately.



 DON’T BE MONOTONOUS
Consistence is good, monotony is not.
So if you were really sweet to your partner before the relationship began or even at the very beginning of it, you have to keep being sweet – that is consistence.

If you keep expressing the sweetness in the same way or format at all times, however, that is monotony and that is not so good.
Look for newer, more creative ways to do the things your partner loves you doing. That’s pretty much what we’re talking about here.

 BE CONSISTENT
What were you doing that attracted them to you? Don’t stop doing those things! That’s pretty much the long and short of consistence in romantic relationships.

If someone falls in love with you for something, it would be mad unfair to get them into a relationship and quit doing those things. It would not be a surprise if such partner loses interest in being with you after a while.


 FLIRT WITH EACH OTHER
Remember all those flirty text messages you would send to and receive from your partner when you just started dating? That’s what kept things fresh and exciting then, and that’s exactly what’ll keep things going even now. No matter how long you’ve been together, it’s always great to flirt. Compliment each other, kiss more often and more passionately, send sexy text messages. Do all the stuff that helped inject some fun and excitement into your relationship.

 THE ROMANCE ENDS
Everyone knows that women cannot live without romance. Romance is also what makes a woman get into a relationship at first place. They think everything will be as romantic as they are at the beginning of the relationship. When they are not, they start to get bored easily. Since romance is the most important thing for a woman in a relationship, you should not let the romance end. Not to let the romance end, you can do some romantic surprises for your partner. You can buy her a flower when you are going home, or you can send her an ”I love you” message during the day. You do not need a grand gesture to keep the romance alive you should show her how much you love her even with a small gesture.

 YOU FIGHT TOO OFTEN
Well, little arguments and fights can be fun in a relationship. For most of the people, it is what keeps a relationship exciting all the time. However, having too many arguments or fights will be extremely serious about your relationship. If you keep arguing all the time, your partner might feel like you do not like each other anymore.

 Too much of a good thing is a bad thing. As it can end the romance and love of your relationship, it can even hurt your partner too much that she might want to break up with you. You can keep the excitement alive as long as your arguments are little and they end with a kiss. You should also try not to hurt your partner during your fights, or she can get bored of feeling unhappy all the time.

 REMIND THEM THEY MATTER
Stop for a second and remember all the things you love about your partner, why you fell in love with them in the first place. Make list and show it to them. Or write them a love letter. Couples who’ve been together for a long time sometimes forget that their partners still need reassurance. Remind them they’re loved, seen, and appreciated.

 TRY SOMETHING NEW IN THE BEDROOM
Listen, sleeping with someone who knows exactly what you like s.e.x.ually and knows how your body responds to different things is what we all want, right? But having the same kind of sex every time you have s.e.x can get a little well, boring. Why not explore a bit?
Watch some p,or.n together, bust out some new positions, or get all. Fifty Shades with each other. Bringing something new and exciting to your s.e.x life might get rid of the boredom.

 FIND CHANGE WITHIN YOURSELF
Often, we say we love our partner because of who he or she is. But at the back of our mind, we are actually expecting that our partner will become the person we want for us. This will eventually come out sooner or later, when you find yourselves getting into a lot of misunderstandings and hurt.

Don’t try to change your partner into someone you want him or her to be. If you want change, start within yourself. Figure out where you need to improve or ask your partner what he’d like better from you. Improving how you are in the relationship does a lot to improve the relationship itself.


 OUTDOOR ADVENTURES
An adventurous weekend with your partner is sure to rev up your relationship’s engine, and give the two of you a chance to create new memories. If you and your mate appreciate the outdoors, take a trip up to the mountains where you can enjoy camping, hiking, fishing, canoeing and plenty of other activities.

In addition to the extra bonding time that a good camping trip encourages, spending time outdoors also offers mental and physical health benefits, including more involvement in physical activity, a rise in vitamin D levels which helps combat depression, heart attacks and cancer and increased happiness.

 ALLOW EACH OTHER TIME OUT
That you are in love with someone does not mean they have to be with you at all times, or that you have to be chatting with each other every single minute of the day, or that they can’t keep friendships or grow in other aspects of their lives.

Allow each other live fully and experience bliss in other facets of life apart from the relationship. It enriches your lives, gives you a fuller experience and makes you better lovers with healthier relationships.